Some things cannot be done because they do not work:
There are many studies (“The Harvard Mastery of Stress Study” is one of them) that prove the following:
a happy couple <==> a happy family
It is so simple: I wonder how my logic failed to go through to you?…
Just imagine:
-how the kid would feel if I am not here ;
-how the kid would feel if we keep fighting ;
-how the kid would feel if s/he is not wanted by BOTH parents.
In other words: the fact that I cannot have a family with you BECAUSE we both have a problem is NORMAL…! I am telling you once more: unless MY/OUR problem is resolved there is just no way that I want to create a BAD/UNHAPPY/FAILED family! I am not STUPID…
This is why God decided that you need both a mother and a father to make a family (not just ONE that decides~). You cannot just force me to have a kid. Moreover: if you decide to have a kid with someone else “at all costs” and that kid grows up without a father then it will just mean FUTURE trouble to the kid…. (poor kid!).
Finally: if you really wanted a kid with me that much then you should follow YOUR logic and resolve MY/OUR problem asap….