I have used the word “divorce” many times, not because I wanted it: but because I wanted you to STOP and CHANGE!… So I waited (like you) again & again. But the changes did not come. Worse: now you don’t even talk to me at all…
I have never wanted to divorce you. How can I do what I do not want?…
I saw you crying during the laywers’ Skype call: I got ANGRY at that time! Do you know we started the divorce just one year ago today?.. Obviously it did not resolve anything. Divorce is not the solution. My threats (and yours) are not the solution.
We need to resolve OUR problems, we do not need a divorce.
I still have hope for you, and for us. We can fix this. I am willing to forget everything (if you also forget everything I did against you). Let’s pretend that we divorced, and married again?….
I still love you. You are still the love of my life.
I have married you and I want to die as your husband. Please don’t divorce.